I always love this time of year. Your dad and I are inundated with photos of you from when you were a baby, through last year when you became a brother. It’s amazing to watch you grow and compare you from one year to the next. Every year I look back and think to myself how amazing you are, and you really and truly are amazing.
This past year you started school at The Burlington School in their PreK program, and you loved every moment of it. There wasn’t a single day when you didn’t want to go to school. You were motivated and raring to go every day, which made me beyond happy. You’ll be going back to The Burlington School this year in their TK (transitional kindergarten) program. I know that you’re excited to be in the same class as your best friend Amare, but you’re sad and a little scared because you have a new teacher. I know that you’ll end up loving her as much as you love your PreK teacher.
We’ve spent the summer going to the Aquatic Center here in Burlington. You love to go and play in the water. You’re a little intimidated from it all, and I really want to get you some swimming lessons so that you’ll be super confident in the water. You love playing with me and your dad in the water, and we love being in there with you!
Your birthday party was at the Splash Park this year, and you shared the party with your brother. I made you a chocolate cake, with chocolate frosting, and a Superman logo on it, per your request. We invited your entire class to your party, and it felt like most of them showed up! You were running around, playing with friends, trying to put ice water in your water gun to shoot at your dad (which was incredibly funny). It warms my heart to see you have such a great time!
For your actual birthday, I took your to Chuck E. Cheese’s, which is where you were dying to go! So, you and I went, and we played all of the games until we ran out of tokens, and then you took your tickets and bought some candy and a few other trinkets. You and I had a marvelous time! After the games, I took you to the Cheesecake Factory for lunch. I had a wonderful time hanging out and talking with you.
The only downside to the year has been that I believe you’re developing some anxiety. You seem to constantly worry about things that are out of your control. You worry about car accidents, and robbers coming into the house. You worry about being separated from your family or things changing. Sometimes it gets so severe that I worry about you, and starting thinking that I might need to find a child psychologist to work with you. For now, I’m keeping an eye on things, but if it gets much worse, we’ll seek professional help for you.
Henry, you are such a sweet child. You’re continually curious, wanting to know and learn more and more. You’re as silly as can be, and no one can make me laugh like you do! I also find that you’re the most loving child imaginable. You tell me 50 thousand times a day that you love me. Whenever you go and spend the night at your grandparent’s house, or your Uncle and Aunt’s house you tell them 50 thousand times that you love me and that you miss me. It warms my heart that I’m in your thoughts so much, because you certainly are in mine.
You light up my life and you always have. I will love you forever and always, no matter what. You are my child, you are linked to me and I always want what’s best for you and what will make you happy.